Danglish

You’ve heard all about the stuff going on in my life from the time I left the US until now. You have seen pictures and read testimonies about a woman moving to another country for the first time in her life not knowing the language, people, or culture. There is much more that I have not incorporated in my descriptions that have taken place in my life that I would like to share with you.

Before I left my home town I would always say, “Not only am I marrying a man, I am marrying a country.” I think my friend Corrisa inspired me to think that way. Her marriage to Noah required that she leave Minnesota for the Outer Banks, which is pretty much a different country.

We did not make this decision to get away and live an adventurous life (though we had to think outside “the normal box”). Corissa and I did it because we loved our husband’s enough to sacrifice ourselves to live in their world. Obviously, I am not an expert on marriage because this is a brand new identity for me; therefore I can’t tell you from experience that it is worth it. Nor can I admit that I have perfected the skills to live here because I have lived outside the US elsewhere. Something inside me gives me the capability to press forward with the understanding that this is what I was made to do.

Even in the early days, before I took time to get to know God he had this all planned out. I remember feeling like I was making my own path when I was on the Outer Banks. I felt guilty for wanting to get married and travel when there were so many blessings around me. After feeling bad for these desires I was slowly awakened to my rights as a Christian and began knocking on the door, and seeking for the true heart of God. I aligned my thoughts and actions with Christ and did not compromise. The door was opened and I could see clearly that the wishes I had been envisioning for years were actually needs that would have to be met!

Now I am here in Denmark with my husband, Simon. At times I lose perspective and begin to forget what my purpose is. But then I remember that I am fulfilling what God has for me just by living for him and being obedient to the desires he gives me. It’s a great journey!

Just in the past week, five of us including myself have accepted a leadership position in a youth program. The program was just kicking off so I jumped aboard. It reminds of how I became apart of Christian Surfers back at home...leadership meetings and everything. I am just following my heart and doing what comes natural. This should be a laugh, though: my job responsibilities require that I fix meals for the group. Well, if Simon can’t get me in the kitchen, then God certainly can.

Anyway, I just want to thank you all for believing in my marriage and my move and for all of your prayers. I wouldn’t be the person I am without you or God. Tusind Tak! (Thank you very much)!